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Mike & Julia

We are so excited and eager to grow our family through adoption. We cannot wait to welcome a special child into our family for us to cherish, protect, and love unconditionally. We are deeply grateful to you for reading our profile and for considering us. It would be a profound honor if you chose us to parent your child.

About Us

Mike
Julia
Job
Energy Policy Advisor
Teacher
Education
Master's Degree in Public Policy
Master's Degree in Special Education
Children
None
Relationship
Legally Married

Our Leisure Time

Relaxing While Exploring a New City

We both love finding ways to relax. We love to travel, explore the world, and read good books. Mike prefers to read non-fiction books, while Julia likes to read fantasy, historical fiction, and any books for her classroom. We are both introverts, so we like to spend our leisure time doing activities that recharge us. Julia likes to do any form of puzzle - big jigsaw puzzles, crosswords, sudoku. She likes to run outside with good music, do yoga, cuddle with the dogs, and watch movies like Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter. Mike loves to be outside and active. He likes cycling, golf, skiing, and snowboarding. He also likes to relax while watching sports. We both enjoy spending time with small groups of friends and delicious food. We are both so excited to share all these activities with a child and to learn new activities based on what our child grows to love!

Why We Will Be Amazing Parents:

We Love to Dance!

  • We had amazing parents and are ready to put that model into action for ourselves.
  • We are very similar in certain ways and complete opposites in many ways. This creates a lot of balance in our home and will help us allow our child to grow into who they uniquely are.
  • We like spontaneous dance parties, especially when making cookies.
  • We align our lives to our shared values - being loving people and trying to bring more good into the world.
  • Our child will always have unlimited hugs and cuddles - both human and canine!
  • We are aware of the joys and challenges that come with adoption, especially transracial adoption. We are committed to learning how to best support our child, even when it is hard or uncomfortable. Our child's needs will always come first.
  • We are nerds. We look forward to sharing our love of books and learning with a child.
  • We are just about bursting with love and anticipation of the child who is meant to bless our lives and grow our little family. Our child will be as loved as any child has ever been or will be.
  • Cultural Diversity

    We both grew up with different cultural backgrounds. We appreciate the role that our cultural upbringing plays in who we are, and we seek to incorporate important elements into our family life. One way that we like to celebrate Mike's background is going to dim sum, a traditional Chinese brunch, with friends to enjoy food and good company.

    We are dedicated to recognizing and honoring the cultural background of an adopted child and we are excited to incorporate elements of that culture into our child's daily life and upbringing. Julia is especially excited to provide a library of books, movies, and art that will provide both windows and mirrors for our child, so they can see themselves reflected and valued in the immediate world around them while also being exposed to other cultures that the world has to offer. We are committed to learning about a culture that may be different from our own and finding families of that cultural background to be a part of the child's life and to help us be the best parents we can be. We belong to a church that is very racially and ethnically diverse, with people that come from 74 different countries.

    Photos

    Julia in Her Happy Place - Cuddling & Reading
    Julia in Her Happy Place - Cuddling & Reading
    Another Outdoor Adventure for Mike
    Another Outdoor Adventure for Mike
    Relaxing at the Jersey Shore
    Relaxing at the Jersey Shore
    Hiking in the Woods Near Our House
    Hiking in the Woods Near Our House
    Fancy Night for a Family Wedding
    Fancy Night for a Family Wedding
    Julia & Our Niece
    Julia & Our Niece
    At the Van Gogh Experience
    At the Van Gogh Experience
    Trekking Around Brooklyn
    Trekking Around Brooklyn
    Exploring Hawaii Together
    Exploring Hawaii Together
    Family Photo Time
    Family Photo Time
    Paris Is One of Our Favorite Places to Visit
    Paris Is One of Our Favorite Places to Visit
    We Love Taking Relaxing Walks in Nature
    We Love Taking Relaxing Walks in Nature
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    Julia in Her Happy Place - Cuddling & Reading
    Julia in Her Happy Place - Cuddling & Reading
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    Another Outdoor Adventure for Mike
    Another Outdoor Adventure for Mike
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    Relaxing at the Jersey Shore
    Relaxing at the Jersey Shore
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    Hiking in the Woods Near Our House
    Hiking in the Woods Near Our House
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    Fancy Night for a Family Wedding
    Fancy Night for a Family Wedding
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    Julia & Our Niece
    Julia & Our Niece
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    At the Van Gogh Experience
    At the Van Gogh Experience
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    Trekking Around Brooklyn
    Trekking Around Brooklyn
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    Exploring Hawaii Together
    Exploring Hawaii Together
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    Family Photo Time
    Family Photo Time
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    Paris Is One of Our Favorite Places to Visit
    Paris Is One of Our Favorite Places to Visit
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    We Love Taking Relaxing Walks in Nature
    We Love Taking Relaxing Walks in Nature

    Our House and Neighborhood

    So Much Love Inside Our Home!

    We live in Maryland in a nice little neighborhood. There's a park a few blocks away with a playground, basketball hoops, and a tennis court. There's also a Free Little Library where neighbors drop off books and sometimes we find a good one to read. There are lots of kids in the neighborhood, and the elementary school is a short walk away.

    Tomatoes From Our Garden

    The neighborhood is also diverse in lots of ways. There are lots of seniors whose families grew up here and lots of young families with school aged children. Our neighborhood is wonderful in its racial diversity as well. The people that live on our block are all very friendly, and we'll often be chatting on the sidewalk or watching our dogs say hi to each other. We also all decorate our homes with lights for Christmas. In the summer, it's not uncommon for us to share tomatoes or other vegetables that we have grown in our backyards.

    Our home is small and cozy with three bedrooms and a guest room. We also have a fenced in backyard with a small bonfire pit that we enjoy on cool autumn days.

    Our Extended Families

    The Ladies of Julia's Family

    We see our extended families regularly as they only live a couple hours away.

    We spend the holidays with our extended families. For Thanksgiving there is usually a big family dinner with a turkey (or two!), mashed potatoes, stuffing, and gravy. There is also a big Christmas Eve dinner with ribs and gumbo and then we do small gatherings on Christmas Day. Christmastime is filled with lots of delicious food, cookie-making, and hanging out together in our PJs.

    With Mike's Family

    We also love to travel with our extended family. We have recently explored Hawaii, Greece and Turkey. Julia also traveled to the Bahamas with her sister and her niece, Ava, when Ava was just 6 months old. It's never too early to start seeing the world! From time-to-time we will also spend time with Mike's family down at the Jersey Shore. It's a nice family friendly place where kids can run and play with all their cousins.

    Our extended family is caring, welcoming, and always willing to lend a hand or help out. Everyone in our extended family is very supportive of our adoption plan and cannot wait to love (and probably spoil a little bit) this child as a member of their family.

    From Us to You

    Thank you so much for taking the time to get to know us and for considering us for the incredible honor of welcoming your child into our family. Our hearts are eagerly awaiting the child who will give us the gift of becoming parents.

    We first met in the popcorn line at a movie theater in 2011. We were both there in a large group from our church to see the movie "X-Men: First Class." When we walked back into the theater, others in the group assumed we were together, so they moved seats so we could sit next to each other. We chatted before and after the movie, and Mike walked Julia home. Julia walked into her apartment and immediately told her roommate, "I'm pretty sure I just fell in love." Four years later, we were married outside in front of a little gazebo surrounded by our friends and family. We have been married for 6 1/2 years and love our little family (we call it our "pack") with our dogs, Abby and Luna. We are so excited to welcome a child into our lives to expand our pack.

    Over the past 10-11 years together, we have weathered many storms, both as individuals and as a couple. While these times were difficult, we strongly believe that they taught us more about who we are and they prepared us to be a strong parenting team. In good times and bad, Mike is steady. He shows his love through acts of service and is always ready to do what needs to be done. Julia is fiercely devoted to those she loves. She has a passion for the underdog and has a fiery "mama bear" instinct. She shows her love through physical affection and quality time. We balance each other out while also challenging each other to continue growing and learning.

    When we dream about the future, we envision a big happy family with multiple children and multiple dogs. We see a home that is brimming with love, energy, and peace. We want our children to bring their friends home with them for snacks after school because it is a place where everyone feels welcome, known, and accepted. Our dreams are filled with cozy cuddles around the fire, cheering loudly on the sidelines of a soccer game in the rain, and summer water balloon fights in the backyard. Our dreams are also filled with holding our children as they cry over their first heartbreak, reining ourselves in when we want to help but know that our child needs to make decisions and mistakes for themselves, and leaning on each other when we make a parenting mistake. We are walking into this experience with our eyes and our hearts wide open. Parenting will be hard and messy and absolutely beautiful. We cannot wait!

    We welcome you to be involved and invest in your child's life to the extent with which you feel comfortable. We will gladly share pictures, emails and stories that capture significant moments in your child's life. We are also open to setting up visits with our family so your child can know and love you. We will honor you in our home by always speaking highly of you and your decision with both our words and our actions. Your decision is significant and we recognize that.

    Thank you for considering us. We hope and pray that you find peace as you make this decision.

    Mike & Julia

    Favorites

    Mike
    Julia
    Actor
    Mark Wahlberg
    Tom Hanks
    Actress
    Anne Hathaway
    Dame Maggie Smith
    Animal
    Giant Panda
    Red Panda
    Author
    Patrick Lencioni
    Jason Reynolds and Paolo Coelho
    Book
    Good to Great
    A Tree Grows in Brooklyn
    Candy Bar
    Snickers
    Reese's Sticks
    Cartoon
    G.I. Joe
    Childhood Memory
    living in Singapore
    Dancing and making cookies with my mom and sister
    Childhood Toy
    G.I. Joe
    Lite Brite
    Children's Book
    Where the Sidewalk Ends
    Lion in the Night
    City
    Singapore
    Paris
    Classic Movie
    Top Gun
    My Fair Lady
    Color
    Green
    Raspberry
    Day of Week
    Monday
    Thursday
    Dessert
    Key lime pie
    Homemade funfetti cupcakes
    Disney Movie
    Aladdin
    Mulan
    Dream Car
    Toyota Landcruiser
    Ford F150 (Harley Davidson edition!) in black
    Dream Job
    Teacher!
    Dream Vacation
    Maldives
    Any new city good for exploring by foot
    Family Activity
    Walking with the dogs
    Walking in nature with our dogs
    Flower / Plant
    Bamboo
    Daffodil
    Food
    Burgers
    Peanut Butter
    Form of Exercise
    Cycling
    Yoga
    Fruit
    Lychee
    Pear
    Game
    Ticket to Ride
    Monopoly Deal
    Hobby
    Biking
    Crossword puzzles
    Holiday
    Christmas
    Thanksgiving
    Holiday Song
    Hallelujah Chorus
    Don't Save It All for Christmas Day
    Holiday Tradition
    Eating cheesesteaks on Christmas Eve
    Reading The Gift of the Magi with family under the covers on Christmas Eve
    Ice Cream
    Mint chocolate chip
    Vanilla with peanut butter swirl
    Junk Food
    Movie Theater Popcorn
    Ruffles with french onion dip
    Leisure Activity
    Skiing
    Jigsaw puzzles
    Magazine
    Motor Trend
    Women's Running
    Memory with a Child
    Playing on the beach with big extended family
    Meeting my niece Ava in the hospital when she was just a few hours old!
    Memory with Spouse
    Going canoeing with our dogs
    Taking a motorcycle class together
    Movie
    Fast and the Furious
    Lord of the Rings
    Movie Munchie
    Popcorn
    Milk Duds & buttery popcorn
    Movie Quote
    "But you know, happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light."
    Movie Type
    Action
    Fantasy
    Musical
    Hamilton
    Hamilton
    Musical Group
    Needtobreathe
    Dave Matthews Band
    Olympic Event
    Bobsledding
    Rowing
    Personal Hero
    My mom
    Play
    Hamilton
    Inherit the Wind
    Poet
    Walk Whitman
    Shel Silverstein
    Quality about my Spouse
    Dedication to helping others
    Steadiness
    Quote
    Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
    This above all: to thine own self be true.
    Restaurant
    Shake Shack
    Le Diplomate
    Sandwich
    Italian Hoagie
    Turkey Gobbler from Wawa
    Scripture
    Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
    Shopping Store
    REI
    Any bookstore
    Song
    "The Heart" by NeedtoBreathe
    Summertime (Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong)
    Sport to Play
    Golf
    Soccer
    Sport to Watch
    Football
    Soccer
    Sports Star
    Megan Rapinoe
    Sports Team
    Philadelphia Eagles
    US National Women's Soccer
    Subject in School
    Math
    French
    Superhero
    Spiderman
    Shuri (from Black Panther)
    Thing to Cook
    Pulled Pork
    Christmas cookies
    Time of Day
    Morning
    Dawn
    Tradition
    Christmas presents
    Spending the week between Christmas and New Years with family
    TV Show
    Chicago Fire
    Jeopardy
    TV Show Character
    Josh Leyman
    Olivia Pope
    Type of Music
    Pop
    90s hip hop
    Vacation Spot
    Lakeside
    Kyoto
    Video Game
    Madden

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